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If everyone here (including the author) read the book 'The East, The West, And Sex: A History' by Historian and scholar Richard Bernstein, then all the reasons behind the east-west mutual fascination/hatred would be cleared up. There are myriad historical and cultural reasons behind the stigma contained in multi-racial relationships, and this book adeptly explains a good deal of them. I strongly advise you read it, if you want to have, at the very least, a rudimentary knowledge of the history behind the perverse sentiments that accompany colonialistic rule and the racial tensions that arise from it.
Jun 03, 2011 00:28 Report Abuse
hi there
cannot imagine, u already found she loves u money most, but u still bought so many things for her. Dump her, the girl who go for money, for looks, all liar, they deserve nothing...there are many good chinese girls. she is not...
Jul 30, 2011 03:24 Report Abuse
Ralph:
how long have u been to china? I have a gut feeling, Guess at least 3years....
Jul 30, 2011 03:00 Report Abuse
The reasons we dont see white women with asian men are these.
1. White women are incredibly superficial. They typically will not date anyone not significantly taller than they are, and very close to 6ft or taller. Tall asian men as you might notice do not have this problem dating white women.
2. White women care nothing for "intelligent, doting, caring, loving, sweet, nice guy asian" VS. "alpha pig male cheater liar aggressive loud cocky comedian with some size on him and a ton of confidence" will 99% chance cheat on her, verbally abuse her to the point she is emotionally damaged for life etc. but she doesn't care. unless a Christian, she will never go for a nice white guy let alone a nice asian, forget that. Churchies excepted, but in that case she will be in her local church in the west generally, unless on religeous volunteer work.
3. white women don't go for geeky glasses wearing types (superficial again) small physical frames (unless they are tiny themselves - very rare for the claimed "REAL WOMAN is a size 14 western woman". I will spare the yucky jokes here. :)
4. western women would rather be #13 or 14 on the big rich alpha males list for a shot at him than #1 on a doting asian husbands list (there are of course exceptions but this is the general western culture I'm speaking of)
A well built muscular and fit 5'9 Asian who doesn't wear glasses, and who looks in the right places in the west for love, and who is VERY western stands a good chance possibly though, and a very good chance if 5'11 especially if he is okay with fat girls and never having anyone the size of an asian ever again ;)
Mar 07, 2012 22:14 Report Abuse
All 4 filipinos I met in China were involved in several scams including fake dating profiles to take western men's money. Very bad. In the USA, very noble loving Christian rooted people however, family based and highly religeous.
Mar 07, 2012 22:03 Report Abuse
So instead of choosing petite, beautiful, eats right and looks after herself and wants to be beautiful for her husband, we are supposed to choose, lazy, fat disgusting cow-pig western woman who doesn't give a crap about how she looks to her husband, the effect on the chemistry, the attraction levels, and whether he feels loved or not, just whatever goes? And somehow that might make things better???? O.O Are you on smack?
Mar 07, 2012 21:27 Report Abuse
I am 36 and fear heavily being with someone 24......risky business,and I feel selfish too....I will certainly die long before her and she will be a widow, lonely many years....I know widows....so I fear making this choice.
Mar 07, 2012 21:12 Report Abuse
Is that really true! would never have known that if you hadn't of said......
hahaha, i don't think they have opened their eyes to what is really going on in this world.
Dec 13, 2011 20:41 Report Abuse
huh?abortions?if you are a woman ,it's good for you to to have a try!!!
Jan 18, 2012 19:59 Report Abuse
Agreed, Chinese women are way LESS accepting of one night stands! Chinese women in many places stay the heck away from foreigners you can see it. They don't like them and know most are all playboys and sleazy. In China no sex before marriage is a CULTURAL thing not ONLY a CHRISTIAN thing like in the USA. You dont need religeon for it in China. There isnt a single woman outside of church in the USA that thinks its not okay to have sex whenever and with whomever you feel like it. This is NOT the view of Chinese women.
Mar 07, 2012 21:01 Report Abuse
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